How often do we as individuals lie and get away with it? What do we lie about? Are most things that we lie about worth the lies? Or is it just because we don't find anything better to say or make an excuse or give a justification?
Most of the times we lie, because we are too afraid to tell the truth and deal with the complications it gets for us. The surprising thing is that , it's not the truth that brings the complications but the lie that drags us into all the shit we face later. Almost all the time we are simply scared of things that might happen, and what we do is forget that 'might' is not a deciding word, it has possibilities of both that a situation may occur or may not occur. And most of the times in these lies we loose our original self and tend to forget what was the truth.
The truth is much much more easier to handle as compared to the lie. To hide one lie, you've to tell a million more lies. Is that really acceptable? I mean, most of the times, I'm stuck in situations where I simply lie to get away, and hell! yes! I do get away, but that is for a very short while of course! Most of the lies that I tell always get caught. And, it's not that I'm bad at telling lies or something, it's just that they have to be caught. If not now, then maybe in a while. But, you can never get away with telling a lie.
the biggest cost of telling a lie is loosing the person you've loved the most. I paid it. Trust me, it's the worst feeling on the planet. You feel so frustrated, broken & what not. And, you can do absolutely nothing to get rid of this feeling. You go like; 'Man! I wish I didn't do this'. But, by the time you realize that what you've done was wrong, it's too late too apologize.
All you can do is live with the guilt. And living with guilt is like living with a burden. And, it's not at all, simple for a start.
Here's me signing off, with a free advice;
AVOID LIES AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE! :\
Most of the times we lie, because we are too afraid to tell the truth and deal with the complications it gets for us. The surprising thing is that , it's not the truth that brings the complications but the lie that drags us into all the shit we face later. Almost all the time we are simply scared of things that might happen, and what we do is forget that 'might' is not a deciding word, it has possibilities of both that a situation may occur or may not occur. And most of the times in these lies we loose our original self and tend to forget what was the truth.
The truth is much much more easier to handle as compared to the lie. To hide one lie, you've to tell a million more lies. Is that really acceptable? I mean, most of the times, I'm stuck in situations where I simply lie to get away, and hell! yes! I do get away, but that is for a very short while of course! Most of the lies that I tell always get caught. And, it's not that I'm bad at telling lies or something, it's just that they have to be caught. If not now, then maybe in a while. But, you can never get away with telling a lie.
the biggest cost of telling a lie is loosing the person you've loved the most. I paid it. Trust me, it's the worst feeling on the planet. You feel so frustrated, broken & what not. And, you can do absolutely nothing to get rid of this feeling. You go like; 'Man! I wish I didn't do this'. But, by the time you realize that what you've done was wrong, it's too late too apologize.
All you can do is live with the guilt. And living with guilt is like living with a burden. And, it's not at all, simple for a start.
Here's me signing off, with a free advice;
AVOID LIES AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE! :\
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